The "Fistgate" tapes: Part I

"Tolerance"?

In considering homosexual programs in the public schools, one is always told that the goal is tolerance. It's not about sex; it's about tolerance. It's about civil rights; it's about human rights. It's about anything but sex -- so they say.

But when I recently attended the 10th annual Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network Conference (GLSEN), I heard quite a different story. You should know that this conference was fully supported by the Massachusetts Department of Education, the Safe Schools Program, the Governor's Commission on Gay & Lesbian Youth, and some of the presenters even received federal money.

The audio excerpts you hear on this tape were recorded at this GLSEN conference. My experience and what you are about to hear was likely not a unique experience. This was my first GLSEN conference and the majority of the tape you are about to hear was from the first two workshops I attended. To think that I could have been so lucky as to stumble into workshops that are not normal for these "gay" student-teacher conferences is highly unlikely. I would not be surprised if you heard the same things if you attended a GLSEN conference in your own hometown.

Some of what you are about to hear is extremely explicit. This tape is intended for parents and adults concerned with the homosexual agenda in our schools and should not be listened to by children without parental supervision.

Spitting versus swallowing while giving oral sex to a male

If it's all about tolerance, why is the following question necessary?

"Tolerance" -- You just heard a public employee ask 14-year-olds if it was rude to spit rather than swallow during oral sex.

The phony mantra: "It's not about sex"?

David LaFontaine, chairman of the Governor's Commission on Gay and Lesbian Youth and the man who is mostly responsible for the Gay Straight Alliances in Massachusetts, tells us, "We believe very strongly that all students should not be sexually active in high school."

It's about tolerance? If Gay Straight Alliances are not about sex, why are the people who run Gay Straight Alliances telling students about fisting? What you did not see is the man leading the discussion positioning his hand and showing 14-year-olds how to insert their entire hand into the rectum of their sex partner. When I brought up a similar concern at the Dec 21st, 1999 Board of Education meeting, Marcel Laflame, chairman of the Student Advisory Council and a member of the Board of Education, told me, "You're operating under the premise that Gay Straight Alliances are all about sex. I'm speaking for myself as a founding member of our school's GSA. It is not all about sex."

"Tolerance" -- If Gay Straight Alliances are not about sex, why are the students told to go to their "really hip GSA advisors" to get tips on making the first move? He is actually recommending the student to go to the Gay Straight Alliance advisor to learn how to approach someone they've never had sex with before.

As recently as Thursday, April 6, the Assistant Superintendent at Newton North High School mocked one parent's concern about that school's gay day by saying that being gay has nothing to do with sex. Quote: "This is not about sex. This is about human rights," according to Jim Marini, the Assistant Superintendent to the Newton schools.

"Tolerance"? If the entire agenda is about tolerance, why does a Department of Education employee complain about having to fight against other public employees who say it is not all about the sex? Like the department employee says, "Sex is central to every one of us, particularly for queer people, sex takes on a different meaning." The statements to the contrary "really aren't based in reality." Clearly the goal is not tolerance -- rather breaking down the natural sense of right and wrong of a child, putting him into an exploratory mode and actually encouraging the child to put himself into a potentially life-threatening situation.

Getting into "exploratory mode" with sexuality

Department of Education employees helped children to get into an exploratory mode with their sexuality. They assist exploring teens to get together and to have sex to find out whether or not they are homosexual. Again, the people who come into your children's school to discuss homosexuality intend to put children into an exploratory mode to obtain "a don't knock it until you try it" attitude about homosexual sex.

Oral sex and tongue rings

Not only do Department of Education employees help these children to get together to have sex, but they discussed how sex might be better - perhaps everyone should pierce their tongues.

A tongue ring is a metal stud that is often pierced straight through your tongue. Here, 14-year-olds have already learned that a tongue ring makes oral sex better.

State money for gay school clubs

Massachusetts leads the country in supporting the "gay" agenda in public schools. We have Gay Straight Alliances throughout the state. Gay Straight Alliances are after-school clubs supported by our government where teenagers discuss everything you learn from these leaders. Massachusetts Gay Straight Alliances are the model for Gay Straight Alliances throughout the country.

There are about 700 Gay Straight Alliances throughout the nation. Over 180 of them are in Massachusetts. The reason Massachusetts has more than one quarter of all the Gay Straight clubs in the nation is that our state budget includes one and a half million dollars ($1,500,000) -- of our tax dollars -- to support these clubs each year. Contrary to the statements made from the previous DOE employees, we don't "essentially" have government support. We have government support for clubs which advocate homosexuality to teenagers.

HIV education vs fisting?

You just learned that a Department of Education employee visits Gay Straight Alliances throughout the year to implement what is called "a school based HIV prevention program with a broader sexuality education approach." Keep in mind this is the same woman you heard a few moments ago tell 14-year-olds that sticking your whole hand into the rectum of your partner is about intimacy. Is this the woman you want to visit your child's high school?

Sex on a homosexual date

Now that we've clearly established that the agenda is not about tolerance, rather sex, let me share with you some of the conversations from the workshops entitled "What they didn't tell you about queer sex and sexuality in health class" and "Putting the sex back into sexual orientation: Classroom strategies for health and sexuality educators."

A Department of Public Health employee asked the students what were some of the possibilities if they were to go on a homosexual date:

Did you hear that? All-out sex is a real date possibility. I thought that high school students were encouraged not to have sex, yet this Department of Public Health employee in essence says, "You're gonna have sex and that's great."

Types of homosexual sex kids can try

But the presenters of this workshop were concerned that the students might not know what to do if they were to have sex, or whether there could be gay sex at all. Can a gay person lose their virginity? Is oral sex sex? All of these were considered very important concerns which your child needs to determine on his own. Please listen.

The students cavalierly laughed at a public worker who just informed a group of children that he has received oral sex countless times. These students carelessly threw around their view of sexuality as easily as did the Department of Public Health employee. And if sex is the filling of an orifice, can lesbians have sex?

Did you hear that Department of Public Health employee? "Is f---ing sex?" Who gives this public employee the right to ask your child if f---ing is sex? "Do lesbians use a dildo? Can a dildo be too big? Can a dildo be too small?" All of these are considered very important questions for your teenager.

Even though these children were told that it is fun to experiment, our public employees still informed every budding lesbian of just what to do. All they had to do was ask.

Lesbians rubbing clits together

Following a seven-minute discussion on whether lesbians rubbed their clits together: Questions like: "How does it work? Can you show me?" I will take you through this discussion stopping to highlight some of the critical points.

The previous discussion was on how lesbians had sex, whether lesbians could have sex and did they rub their clits together. The following conversation will give you some of the answers.

A student asked the rest of the class if anybody else had done it so that they could get a better picture on how these 14-year-old girls could have sex with each other. A Department of Education employee informs all the young women in the room that rubbing your clits together is absolutely possible. You can achieve orgasm from it. You can be stimulated from it. It is a sexual experience.

Finally the answer emerges from one of the students: You do whatever works. Simply that's the answer. That's the answer to the homosexual lifestyle. You do whatever you need to for sex.

There you have it. According to the Department of Education employee, tribadism is a sexual experience. Indeed, lesbians do have sex and now your daughters know how.

How to do "fisting"

Not only were the "normal" sexual encounters described, but even the completely abnormal came into the full light of day. Fisting, a deviant sexual practice where someone places their entire hand inside the rectum of their partner -- oftentimes up to their elbow -- was given particular attention and advocacy.

At this point, the gay male Department of Public Health employee positioned his hand open and pointed rather than like a bald fist.

Fisting is "an experience of letting someone into your body that you want to be that close and intimate with."

Pain and sado-masochism

This demonstrates clearly the two differing world views between heterosexual and homosexual sex. Homosexual sex forces homosexuals to attempt to beautify what is repugnant and bizarre.

The ugliness of mixing sex and violence is best revealed through the world of sado-masochism -- S&M. S&M goes hand in hand with homosexuality.

Public employees did not discourage violence and sex. Rather they asked 14-year-olds to draw a line through experimentation, asking the students to determine how they knew what their boundaries are. And those boundaries are best discovered through exploration.

These public employees are actually offering suggestions to children on how to stick their entire hand into another's rear end. Pardon my frankness. But public employees have coached children in lewd and lascivious behavior. What a far cry from the teaching of the 3 Rs in school. When sexuality is taught in high school, the most banal and lewd will be taught.

Abstinence?

And what about all that money for abstinence education we're hearing about? You'll hear our presenter's opinion on that, too.

Sex has been reduced to a cheap thrill. But what more should we expect from our children when those who are in charge of sexual education have ideas about sexuality like you just heard?

Many people are not aware that the U.S. Congress has funded a federal abstinence program. The idea of abstinence is totally spurned by the moderator who encourages the young people to think of people they know who are sexually active and consider what harmful effects they have encountered, as if 14-year-old children are the best judges of such.